On June 17, the firm proudly hosted its 2026 Pride Month Program, featuring special guest Jim Obergefell, whose personal story and legal journey helped shape one of the most significant civil rights decisions in recent history. Thompson Coburn partner Chris Murray and associate Evelyn Clark, co-chairs of the firm’s LGBTQ+ affinity group, provided an introduction and moderated the Q&A session, respectively.
Nearly 180 team members joined the program to hear Jim share the deeply personal story behind his fight to secure marriage equality in the United States.
Jim spoke movingly about his 22-year relationship with his late partner, John Arthur. In 2011, John was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS), a progressive and incurable disease. Jim served as John’s devoted caregiver throughout his illness, supporting him at every stage.
Following the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in United States v. Windsor, which struck down key provisions of the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), Jim and John made the decision to marry. With time running short and John unable to travel easily due to his condition, the couple—supported by family and friends—boarded a medically equipped plane on July 11, 2013, and flew to Maryland, where same-sex marriage was legal. Because of John’s fragile health, the couple exchanged vows on the plane while it remained on the tarmac.
After returning to Ohio, Jim and John were confronted with another profound hardship: Ohio did not recognize their marriage. As a result, Jim would not have been listed as John’s surviving spouse on his death certificate.
Determined to ensure their marriage was recognized, Jim filed suit. On July 22, 2013, a federal district court issued a temporary restraining order requiring Ohio to recognize their marriage for purposes of John’s death certificate. When John passed away on October 22, 2013, the death certificate reflected that he was married and named Jim as his surviving spouse.
Jim’s case ultimately became part of the landmark Obergefell v. Hodges decision, in which the U.S. Supreme Court affirmed the fundamental right to marry for same-sex couples nationwide.
During the program, Jim reflected not only on the legal battle, but also on the enduring power of love, dignity, and advocacy. His message resonated strongly with attendees across the firm.
Thompson Coburn team members shared their appreciation following the event:
- “Very grateful for your courage, advocacy, and time today—it was incredibly inspiring.”
- “Thank you for making this world a better place. Much respect to both you and John.”
- “Wonderful speaker! Gave me hope that things can get better.”
- “Extreme gratitude for the wonderful presentation.”
- “Thank you for your courage and for sharing your story!”
- “What a great reminder that we can move mountains.”
- “This was one of the most inspiring presentations that I have heard at TC.”
This impactful conversation served as a powerful reminder of the impact individuals can have in advancing equality—and reinforces our continued commitment to fostering an inclusive and supportive workplace for all.
Thank you to Norma Jackson, Chief Diversity & Attorney Development Officer, for connecting with Jim and bringing this inspiring program to the firm.